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Why You Are (Already) A Winner?

Today on OiB, I will discuss how you’re already a winner through the daily things you do and the daily approaches that you seek in life. It is a true statement that I tend to forget. Life can be challenging and complicated, yet I try hard to keep my smile on.

In this article, I will share with you some tips to maintain a positive attitude. Please read below and feel free to share your feedback on the comment section.

There are many differences between a winner and a loser. To be honest, it is all about the way you think. Yes, it is a mindset! This is reflected in the following ways which prove that you are already a winner. The list below helps reflect on how one’s mood can be uplifted to have confidence and feel proud of them.

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  • Responsibility – Responsibility is what makes them motivated to achieve things and approaches that make them winners
  • Drive – Winners are always driven towards their goal which makes them reach it faster.
  • Willingness to learn – Winners are very eager to learn all the time at every opportunity.
  • Positivity Winners are always positive in negative situations. Even in the worst of times, most of us realize that we still have things in our lives for which we are grateful. Voice those blessings! Practice gratitude.
  • Humility – Winners are humble upon success and are always good with others

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  • Certainty – Winners are always certain of the result which is why they know how to handle it well.
  • Goals – Winners know their goals well which is why they succeed.
  • Focus – Winners are always focused on what they want from life and their goals which brings about their success.
  • Laugh – As you already know, laughter is the best stress-reliever. Bar none. Every time I laugh without reservation, I feel so ecstatic and lighthearted. So develop the habit of laughing everyday, even for just a few minutes.

As you learnt today, a diversity of options exist when it come to remaining positive during difficult situation. By being grateful for instance.

Thank you for stopping back,

Amanda.

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Hey you! Yes, you! You are beautiful. You are handsome. You have an entire unique world within you. Bring it out. Let the fire in your eyes burn. Believe in yourself. Because I do. And when you do, the rest of the world will follow suit.”

Self confidence is something many lack. The reason for the same? Unnecessary comments from friends and family that date back to childhood. Yes! Lack of confidence for many, commences from childhood. They are deep rooted and it becomes all the more difficult to uproot them when the scars are old.

Let’s face it. We all feel low when someone indicates through their words and actions that we don’t look good. This mostly happens with people who have a tendency to put on weight, people who are too thin, short or those who are dusky. When the unnecessary comments increase, we begin to doubt ourselves.

Am I too fat? Does that dress look dull on me?

Should I go for this event?

What if they mock me again?

Stop right there! If you begin to doubt yourself, the commentators will increase, so will your doubts. Your confidence level will go further down, making your life miserable. No Superheroes will come to your rescue. You are your own Super hero. Start now! Stop this mess and hit the boost button. Here is how you do it.

Let us start right from the beginning

Step 1: Stop measuring beauty from others’ point of view.

Step 2: Accept & Believe that you are beautiful, just the way you are.

Step 3: DO NOT let anyone else ruin that for you.

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The transformation did not happen overnight. It took me years. It began with believing in myself.

 Boost your self-confidence:

Here are some don’ts that you could use, listed originally here.

  • Asking others for approval – “Am I looking fat?”, whether it is to hear a ‘No’ from a person or whether it is a genuine question, you are giving the permission to someone else to assess you. If you feel that you are fat and want to reduce, do what is necessary. If not, leave it. But do not place your self confidence in someone else’s hands.
  • Putting Yourself Down – “It wouldn’t suit me. I’m fat/thin/dusky” When you say this repeatedly to someone, whether you are fat or not, your belief becomes their belief. Later on, there is no point complaining when they comment on your looks.
  • Agreeing With Someone Who Comments on You – A Big No! It isn’t about throwing stones at every barking dog. It is about keeping up your self respect and not letting anyone else trample you. If you entertain them today, many more will join. You will end up feeling worthless. So, when they pass a comment that brings your confidence level down, boost it up by telling them that you feel wonderful this way. They will stop in a while.
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  • Keep believing. Once, you begin to believe, you wouldn’t let others trample you. When they find the fire in you, they will stop once and for all. In the process, you might lose a couple of fake friends. But, the important part is, you will have the most important person with you, hale and hearty: YOU!

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Love,

Amanda: ♥ Facebook @organicisbeautiful  ♥ Instagram @organicisB  ♥ Twitter @organicisb

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If something stands between you and your success, move it. Never be denied. –Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson

Starting with a quote a post is unusual for me, unless its the perfect fit. Chances are you’ve been there before. Across from a woman in a dress that costs more than you’re unemployed tush can hope to make in a month, or on the very distant end of an I’m-not-interested text message. It’s hideous, unfriendly and usually has bad table manners.

It’s called rejection. Unpleasant I know.

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Never Be Denied | OrganicIsBeautiful

After sometimes, I learnt to know and trust that everything will turn out Ok. Regardless of the situation. It takes a lot of energy to stay postive and grateful to what you have. Blogging obviously helps…or kind of. Personally, beside the learning experience, OiB content mirrors my personality, a happy mood. I am grateful that my little life in Asia since I left uni 4 years ago has turned out Ok. By Ok, I mean, yes, you come across some weird situations and behaviour, coupled with cliche and ignorance…Rejection. On both side.

What the sentence says again? “The grass is always greener on the other side”. We all heard it, and felt for its naivety, you and me.

Today, standing with my 3yrs plus in Asia, standing as a 3month old blogger and a lifetime free spirit, I will quote Bob Marley, the precursor. Bob Marley song says. Don’t worry. Everything is gonna be all right.

Wishing you all an awesome day,

Amanda 😉

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